3 Simple Breathing Exercises to Reduce Anxiety

3 Simple Breathing Exercises to Reduce Anxiety


Breathing Exercises to Reduce Anxiety and  Stress

Breathing is my favorite strategy for anxiety and stress relief. It’s quick, easy, free, and you can do it anywhere.


I’m going to teach you three very simple breathing exercises to reduce anxiety, but you don’t actually need any particular technique to relieve stress. You can simply slow down, breath deeply and fully. The additional oxygen can help lower blood pressure and heart rate. In my opinion, there’s really no wrong way to utilize breathing to reduce anxiety and stress. In its simplest form you can take slow, deep breaths in the grocery store line or between test questions.


If you’re able to, incorporate these general tips to increase relaxation:


  • Try closing your eyes. This helps you focus and eliminate distractions.
  • Count your breaths. This will help you slow down and refocus away from your stressors.
  • Breath in so long that it starts to feel uncomfortable. Repeat as you breath out.
  • Visualize a safe, calm, pleasant place. Focus on how it looks, smells, feels.
  • Turn on some soothing background music
  • Sit or stand up as tall as possible. Pull the crown of your head toward the ceiling/sky.
  • Experiment with being inside or outside and discover if one is generally more calming.


Simple breathing

I like to inhale through my nose for a count of 4 and then exhale through my mouth for a count of 4. Repeat for 3-5 minutes.


Breathe like a baby

This can take some concentration at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. Place your hand over your diaphragm (abdomen) and align your breathing with it. As you inhale, watch your diaphragm rise. As you exhale, watch your diaphragm fall.


Tense and release

As you breath deeply, progressively tense and release each of your muscles. Start with your toes, then your feet, calves, etc. Gradually move up the body tensing and releasing. This adds a physical element that is great for reducing stress and bringing awareness to where you’re holding stress in your body. I like to do this lying down, but it can also be done sitting.




Sharon Martin is a psychotherapist, writer, speaker, and media contributor on emotional health and relationships. She specializes in helping people uncover their inherent worth and learn to accept themselves -- imperfections and all! Sharon writes a popular blog called Conquering Codependency for Psychology Today and is the author of The CBT Workbook for Perfectionism: Evidence-Based Skills to Help You Let Go of Self-Criticism, Build Self-Esteem, and Find Balance and several ebooks including Navigating the Codependency Maze.

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